Cancer Survivorship

After meeting with my social worker to discuss next steps in cancer survivorship, I have learned that many cancer patients start the clock on being a cancer survivor the day after their last cancer treatment is finished.  In my case, my cancer survivor day is February 17th.  This can serve as an official date that I beat cancer - well as much as we know until I start achieving milestone scans and check up appointments to reaffirm this date.  


That means today, I celebrate one month as a cancer survivor!  Yippie for me!!  Even though I should feel over the moon with joy, there is an uneasy feeling where I have a bit of guilt for the feelings of relief that I have escaped alive.  There are feelings of wondering whether I am really done with cancer.  All of this is normal, as I gain new confidence as a cancer survivor.  Each day forward is a blessing to celebrate today... that is a good feeling!


Still, my heart feels heavy for several others in my thoughts and prayers who have to continue to deal with cancer treatments.  Their fight is not yet over, and I pray that they find their way to cancer survivorship and celebrate too!


Let's keep talking about cancer and cancer symptoms... early detection provides the best survival chance.  While the medical field researches for more advanced ways to beat cancer.  Never underestimate the power of faith, hope, love... and prayer!!  


Comments

  1. PeteMarch 17, 2021 at 12:49 PM

    Hey, Suze: It’s always, always good to get your reports. Save that picture and post it side-by-side with an updated one in your next report. Hugs!

    Cousin Pete.

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  2. MaxMarch 17, 2021 at 1:23 PM

    Congrats on your one month anniversary. By the way, you have beautiful eyes!!!!
    . . . Max

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  3. Stacey ArbourMarch 17, 2021 at 1:24 PM

    Happy 1 month Anniversary!

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  4. Mary BenekeMarch 17, 2021 at 2:04 PM

    Just to let you know we are very happy for you. Every day you will get a little stronger and feel much better. The sun is shining and spring is just around the corner. So hopefully everyone will feel the warmth from that.
    Percy finished his cancer treatments on March 1, 2021 and we will hear from his doctor on April 12, 2021. We are crossing our fingers and hope the results will be good.
    Lots of Love to you . Aunt Mary & Uncle Percy

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  5. Ellen FaulknerMarch 18, 2021 at 12:24 PM

    Great news for you forsure. Yes we need to talk cancer, there are so many who have it. I want to thank you for sharing your journey with us, and your strength through out that time. God bless you and your family.
    Now if the people, that do not believe in the pandemic would smarten up.
    Stay safe 🙏 🤗❤🌻🌻

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  6. Anna MariaMarch 20, 2021 at 8:58 AM

    Congratulations Sue.
    That uneasy feeling will sneak up on you ever so often, push it away with positive thoughts. As you mention, celebrate each and every day!
    Spring is coming Sue, with sunshine, warmth and lots of colour. Every day will make you stronger.
    March 26th is my one year anniversary. I will celebrate that day from now on too.
    Take care! ❤🌼🌺

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  7. AuntieSusuMarch 20, 2021 at 11:57 AM

    Thank you Max! Blessed with Byerlay eyes I guess. ;)

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  8. AuntieSusuMarch 20, 2021 at 11:57 AM

    Thanks Stacey!! It's been a long road but here I am!

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  9. AuntieSusuMarch 20, 2021 at 11:59 AM

    Glad that Uncle Percy is finished his treatments, and that he may also have good news on April 12th. It's hard when you don't know, but I pray that we both keep getting positive results to add for the WIN!! Love you both!! xoxoxo

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  10. AuntieSusuMarch 20, 2021 at 12:02 PM

    Thank you Ellen. If I made a difference for someone else, then I am happy. I started blogging about my journey to share with others, but to help myself through a difficult time. I just pray this pandemic can be over soon, and we can get back to being able enjoy the company of others. Cheers! xo

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  11. AuntieSusuMarch 20, 2021 at 12:10 PM

    Happy ONE year anniversary Annemarie!! That is an awesome milestone!! I pray that you keep getting those milestone anniversaries and enjoy each and every day too!! It has given me strength to know that I wasn't alone on this journey. Your friendship has always been special to me, and I cherish it even more!! xo I welcome the sunshine and beautiful flowers...

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  12. AuntieSusuMarch 20, 2021 at 12:16 PM

    Thanks Pete for your continued support!! I will have to do some side-by-side pictures to see where I've been and where I'm going... :)

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